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Visiting Nursing Homes with Children Print E-mail
Written by Christine Lever   
Friday, 16 February 2007
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Visiting Nursing Homes with Children
What Your Child Can Expect
Pave The Way for More Visits
 

 

Pave The Way for More Visits 

 

  • Take photos, if possible, and then after the visit look at the photos together and talk about the visit.

 

  • If the child is upset, leave rather than force the child to stay.

 

  • Let the child know that the other residents have grandchildren and great grandchildren and that they enjoy talking to children.

 

  • Walk about the unit with your child so that they can see the other residents but remember not to let the child wander by themselves.

 

  • If your relative cannot remember your child, explain this in terms that the child can understand.  Let them know that their grandfather or grandmother loves them but sometimes forgets their name or confuses them with their own children. 

 

Keeping the initial visit short, friendly and upbeat can pave the way for longer and more meaningful visits to the nursing home.  Don’t deprive your children of interaction with their older relatives.  Let them know that this is all part of life and that older people still have lots to offer including love and friendship.